Why you should accept your ex lover who’s willing to reconcile
National Public Relations Officer of the Ghana Psychological Association,
Joy Anima Debrah, has talked about the one factor that should
determine whether one’s ex is worth accepting back or not.
She admitted first of all that problems of the heart, sometimes,
are very difficult to handle, especially in cases where one is still
in love with their ex-boyfriend or girlfriend who is looking to reconcile.
In her opinion, if the person comes back showing remorse and
a willingness to change for the better, then there may not have
been a mistake, hence, it may be okay to forgive
the person and give things another try.
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However, she noted that if the situation that caused the heartbreak
is still persistent, then it is not advisable to reconcile with that person.
She said this during an interview on eTV Ghana.
“You need to create goals that you’ll work towards as a person.
What are you expecting in three to six months or one year?
“These goals will help you decide whether to go back to that
person or not but ideally, you should be able to assess the
situation very well and analyze it to be able to come to
terms with it as to whether you want to
go back or not,” she further advised.